Relaxing Doesn't Make Babies

Sex-Free

August 16, 2006 — 4:28 am

Well, no sex again yesterday… or the day before. I’ve been so tired. Last night I just went to bed at 9pm, way before Den goes to bed. He was busy. And of course I fell asleep. So when he came to bed and snuggled up to me, asking if possibly any sex was in his immediate future my initial reaction was to think, Don’t touch me, let me go back to sleep! Okay, so that was my only reaction, though I didn’t quite say that outloud. He mumbled a bit about hating the pillow he’s using, and I pretended I didn’t hear him because I don’t want to give the good pillow up. And I fell back asleep.

I feel a little bit of guilt/panic over that, because I don’t know when I’m ovulating?? Probably was yesterday. But I don’t know that for sure. So we should have had sex. But man, we need to start putting our focus on that at a time of day other than when I’m dead asleep.

But then I think, every other month we’ve been having sex every other day or even every day, and it hasn’t done diddly squat. So maybe this will make the difference? Hopefully.

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