As you can see on the right I joined a blog listing of TTC/Pregnant/Moms. I’m enjoying going around and peeking in on different blogs.

But I realize, as I do that, that I’m in a weird kind of in-between. I notice that the TTC blogs are all infertility blogs – women who have been struggling for a year, two years, ten years. We’re not technically classified as infertile yet, as we haven’t hit the 1 year mark. And it made me wonder why I’m the only one writing about TTC before the year is up. It’s not like at one year you suddenly start feeling the pain (though I’m sure that finally getting classified as one is hard to grapple with). I’m willing to bet it’s due to two factors: one, the ones who aren’t yet at that point either hit that point, or get pregnant; and two, most women who are TTC for less than a year don’t invest too much into it. Now I know the latter isn’t really true, because I’m on forums where people are heavily invested. But I guess I’m one of the few blog addicts. ;)

For now I guess we just hope, and read, and hope some more. Let us be one of the ones who don’t make it to a year.