{"id":972,"date":"2007-12-31T07:13:48","date_gmt":"2007-12-31T11:13:48","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/lunardreams.net\/ttc\/?p=972"},"modified":"2007-12-31T07:13:48","modified_gmt":"2007-12-31T11:13:48","slug":"why-i-want-two-kids","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/lunardreams.net\/baby\/?p=972","title":{"rendered":"Why I Want Two Kids"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Tonight I was sitting in the basement with my brother watching TV and chatting with him. The baby was starting to get quite active, so I had a hand on my belly to feel the kicks. I looked at my brother with a grin and said, &#8220;You want to feel the baby?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>There wasn&#8217;t even a pause before he said, &#8220;No!! That&#8217;s just&#8230; weird!&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>I laughed and said it felt like something tapping on my insides. He shuddered dramatically and said, &#8220;Ewwww.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Sometimes they are still little brothers &#8211; even when they&#8217;re &#8220;grown up&#8221;. LOL! Of course, this is a person who sticks his finger in his belly-button and then chases my mother around because he knows it grosses her out&#8230;. so I&#8217;m not so certain you could categorize him as &#8220;grown up&#8221; yet anyways. ;)<\/p>\n<p>::<\/p>\n<p>I do make it a habit to go down to his room and sit there and chat with him every day. I used to do that all the time before I moved, and I really miss it.<\/p>\n<p>Saturday night I was out with my college friends all evening for dinner. I ended up not getting home until 11:30. I walked in and poked my head into my brother&#8217;s room where he was gabbing with a friend, and he said, &#8220;I forgot you&#8217;d gone out. I was thinking, &#8216;Nat hasn&#8217;t come downstairs yet. Weird.&#8217; And then I remembered you weren&#8217;t here.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Later that evening, as I sat at my laptop checking in on things online he comes wandering into my bedroom with a cookie and a glass of coke, settles himself on the floor, and starts telling me about this and that. I love that I&#8217;m his sounding board. I am not in his circle of friends, I am not going to gossip, I am not going to judge. I just listen. I just feel extremely priviledged that he lets me in on his life like that.<\/p>\n<p>::<\/p>\n<p>Today the whole family was in the car driving home from somewhere and my dad started complaining (yes he does this often) about some passing car&#8217;s headlights. &#8220;Fog lights, pah! There&#8217;s no fog! And those are too bright to be fog lights! They&#8217;re ditch lights!&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Cory and I said at the exact same moment, &#8220;Bitch lights!&#8221; Then we looked at each other and started giggling.<\/p>\n<p>Sometimes I think we share a brain. (And no, we&#8217;re not twins!)<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Tonight I was sitting in the basement with my brother watching TV and chatting with him. The baby was starting to get quite active, so I had a hand on my belly to feel the kicks. I looked at my brother with a grin and said, &#8220;You want to feel the baby?&#8221; There wasn&#8217;t even [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":71,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[9,76],"class_list":["post-972","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized","tag-family","tag-ivf-3"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/lunardreams.net\/baby\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/972","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/lunardreams.net\/baby\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/lunardreams.net\/baby\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/lunardreams.net\/baby\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/71"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/lunardreams.net\/baby\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=972"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"http:\/\/lunardreams.net\/baby\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/972\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/lunardreams.net\/baby\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=972"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/lunardreams.net\/baby\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=972"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/lunardreams.net\/baby\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=972"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}