{"id":3460,"date":"2011-02-14T01:55:58","date_gmt":"2011-02-14T05:55:58","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/lunardreams.net\/baby\/?p=3460"},"modified":"2011-02-14T01:55:58","modified_gmt":"2011-02-14T05:55:58","slug":"9-month-nights-hell","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/lunardreams.net\/baby\/?p=3460","title":{"rendered":"9 month nights = hell"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I don&#8217;t know if it&#8217;s teething. I don&#8217;t know if she&#8217;s sick. I don&#8217;t know if it&#8217;s a growth spurt or developmental thing. All I know is that night has become the worst shit ever.<\/p>\n<p>Naps she is doing <i>fantastic<\/i>. I put her on her belly and lay down beside her and sing to her and she falls asleep. And she&#8217;s sleeping for 1-2 hours. I am so very happy with naps. Even going to bed the first time, I do the same thing and it&#8217;s easy as pie.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s when she wakes up that the fun starts. As it has been the past two months it&#8217;s usually only an hour later. She wakes up crying, I go in to put her back to sleep the same way I put her to sleep the first time&#8230; and she <i>freaks the fuck out<\/i>. Screaming bloody murder. So then I try cuddling her, because that always works. More screaming. I pick her up. Screaming. I walk her around and jiggle her and rock her and shush her and sing to her and she arches her back and <i>screams<\/i>. Last night she did this all night long, even though she was sleeping right next to me. Like literally, I am RIGHT THERE. Even trying nursing her got that reaction half the time; the other half she&#8217;d nurse until she was content, try getting up to play, and recommence screaming when I gently layed her back down with me for sleep. (Note: I didn&#8217;t try to put her down, I tried to lay down with her in my arms!)<\/p>\n<p>She is <em>not<\/em> congested. She <em>is<\/em> chewing everything in sight. She is fine if we turn on lights and she can play &#8211; but then you end up with massively overtired baby and that is no fun for anyone. She needs to sleep. <i>I<\/i> need her to sleep. I&#8217;m still sick, my patience is pretty much gone, tonight I just sat in bed with her and cried along with her. Because I don&#8217;t know what to do. Because I don&#8217;t know what is wrong. Because I feel like I&#8217;m failing her. I just keep reminding myself that it hasn&#8217;t always been like this and it won&#8217;t always be like this and it&#8217;s just the age&#8230; the learning new things and the teeth that still haven not shown themselves and the growth spurts and the separation anxiety.<\/p>\n<p>This phase sucks.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I don&#8217;t know if it&#8217;s teething. I don&#8217;t know if she&#8217;s sick. I don&#8217;t know if it&#8217;s a growth spurt or developmental thing. All I know is that night has become the worst shit ever. Naps she is doing fantastic. I put her on her belly and lay down beside her and sing to her [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":71,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[165],"class_list":["post-3460","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized","tag-sleep"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/lunardreams.net\/baby\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3460","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/lunardreams.net\/baby\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/lunardreams.net\/baby\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/lunardreams.net\/baby\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/71"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/lunardreams.net\/baby\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=3460"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"http:\/\/lunardreams.net\/baby\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3460\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":3461,"href":"http:\/\/lunardreams.net\/baby\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3460\/revisions\/3461"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/lunardreams.net\/baby\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=3460"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/lunardreams.net\/baby\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=3460"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/lunardreams.net\/baby\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=3460"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}