{"id":3148,"date":"2010-09-15T11:42:00","date_gmt":"2010-09-15T15:42:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/lunardreams.net\/baby\/?p=3148"},"modified":"2010-09-15T11:42:00","modified_gmt":"2010-09-15T15:42:00","slug":"mama-screwed-up","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/lunardreams.net\/baby\/?p=3148","title":{"rendered":"Mama screwed up"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Well scratch what I wrote, I have no idea what she wants now.<\/p>\n<p>Last night I made a big, big mistake &#8211; second night in a row. I thought, hey she&#8217;s napping so well by herself during the day, how about I wait until she&#8217;s almost asleep and then move her to the cosleeper beside me. If she does well with that I can sleep on my own side of the bed! So that&#8217;s what I did. She was almost asleep, had nursed herself down, taken the paci and was just settling in. As carefully as I could I moved her over and settled her into the cosleeper.<\/p>\n<p>And she woke up. Oh no, she didn&#8217;t wake up crying and screaming the way she used to, she woke up <i>excited<\/i>. Her eyes darted around at this &#8220;new&#8221; vantage point (I wouldn&#8217;t have thought it would be so interesting, considering she sleeps right <i>next<\/i> to the cosleeper every single day and night). And then the legs and arms started pumping. &#8220;Ooo! Ooo!&#8221;<br \/>\n&#8220;Uhhhh,&#8221; I said to Den, &#8220;this isn&#8217;t working, she&#8217;s waking up.&#8221;<br \/>\n&#8220;Have patience,&#8221; he counsels.<\/p>\n<p><i>Bad<\/i> idea. Five minutes went by and now she was super awake and <i>wanting to play<\/i>. I pulled her back into our bed but by that point she wanted no part of sleep. I snuggled her. She screamed and pushed away from me. I sat her up, she looked around and flapped her arms happily. Shit. Shit. I tried to nurse her. More screaming. I gave her the paci. She spit it out and yelled. We got up and walked her around. It was obvious she was tired &#8211; it was 11pm by now &#8211; but she was utterly convinced it was time to play. She&#8217;d doze off on our chest while we walked her around, then wake up shrieking in anger whenever we layed her down.<\/p>\n<p>I was SO frustrated. Den reminded me that she&#8217;s been such a good sleeper that we&#8217;ve been spoiled and are kind of due for some bad nights. But I swear to you, I felt like throwing myself face down, beating the snot of a pillow, and throwing a nice big toddler-esque tantrum. I was so damn angry at myself for moving her. You know that feeling&#8230; that everything was just fine until YOU screwed it up.<\/p>\n<p>It took some work and a lot of patience, but Den finally waited her out until she was really soundly asleep before laying her in my arms. And I froze like that for a good half an hour until it was clear she was going to stay asleep. The rest of the night she did okay. She&#8217;s still a little fidgety at night, and that&#8217;s the part that I can&#8217;t figure out.<\/p>\n<p>The next few nights I&#8217;m going to do what I <i>know<\/i> works for her. Please shoot me if I get any brilliant ideas.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Well scratch what I wrote, I have no idea what she wants now. Last night I made a big, big mistake &#8211; second night in a row. I thought, hey she&#8217;s napping so well by herself during the day, how about I wait until she&#8217;s almost asleep and then move her to the cosleeper beside [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":71,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-3148","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/lunardreams.net\/baby\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3148","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/lunardreams.net\/baby\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/lunardreams.net\/baby\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/lunardreams.net\/baby\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/71"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/lunardreams.net\/baby\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=3148"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"http:\/\/lunardreams.net\/baby\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3148\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":3149,"href":"http:\/\/lunardreams.net\/baby\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3148\/revisions\/3149"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/lunardreams.net\/baby\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=3148"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/lunardreams.net\/baby\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=3148"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/lunardreams.net\/baby\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=3148"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}