{"id":2618,"date":"2010-01-07T00:37:20","date_gmt":"2010-01-07T04:37:20","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/lunardreams.net\/baby\/?p=2618"},"modified":"2010-01-07T00:37:20","modified_gmt":"2010-01-07T04:37:20","slug":"20-weeks","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/lunardreams.net\/baby\/?p=2618","title":{"rendered":"20 Weeks"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>My stretches of silence have been due to a gaming addiction. I&#8217;m having way too much fun playing the mage and squishing things (or, rather, blasting them with fireballs). Ahhh, so relaxing. But sadly 6 hours can go by really quickly when you&#8217;re engrossed in a game (and the hubby is kind enough to watch sports upstairs and leave you to while away the time).<\/p>\n<p>Yesterday morning was my 20 week appointment. How crazy is that? I wasn&#8217;t nervous this time, because baby was kicking me while I sat in the waiting room.<\/p>\n<p>Blood pressure was normal, but weigh-in was less than they&#8217;d like to see &#8211; I think only a 1 lb gain over the past 4 weeks, which makes it 6lbs total. I spoke to the nutritionist, just looking for some ideas on small, simple, protein foods. I&#8217;ve been struggling, especially with feeling sick and cutting out dairy again &#8211; I&#8217;m pretty sure that&#8217;s why I&#8217;ve gained little to no weight the past week or two (actually I lost a tiny bit from 19 to 20 weeks). I was encouraged to eat tuna once a week, salmon, eggs, peanut butter, and milk. (I&#8217;m just not a big meat eater, especially when pregnant. Chicken is so goddamn boring.) The midwife wasn&#8217;t concerned about my weight, but I know I need to continue gaining at a nice steady rate for the baby&#8217;s health, so I just want to make sure I eat right.<\/p>\n<p>The midwife &#8211; who knows and remembers my history &#8211; ran through some questions about birth, pediatrician (what? agghh), feeding plans. And then she looked up and said to me, &#8220;I know this is a stupid question, but I have to ask it. Are you planning on birth control after the baby is born?&#8221; And then we both just laughed.<\/p>\n<p>She did consult with the MFM doctor and went over his plan for me, which they will follow &#8211; it is the same as before. Growth ultrasounds every 4 weeks from here on out, and starting at 34 weeks weekly checks with bio-physical profiles and non-stress tests (alternating weeks). Also starting at 28 weeks they want me to do daily kick counts &#8211; which I was planning on doing anyways but I found it interesting that the doctors mentioned it. I&#8217;m not sure if I&#8217;m pleased that they brought it up, or annoyed that no one mentioned them to me when I was pregnant with Devin&#8230; a little of both, probably.<\/p>\n<p>I told her how active this little girl is, how she has her active periods already, how I can feel quite a bit though I wasn&#8217;t expecting to yet. She flipped through my ultrasound report from last week, confirmed that everything looks good, absolutely nothing of note &#8211; and she confirmed that the heart is fine, and that I am probably correct in my suspicion that they took a while with the heart because the baby wouldn&#8217;t let them get one particular picture that they wanted. This appointment she measured my fundal height (right where it should be, as I already know &#8211; my uterus is to my belly button), and then of course checked the heartrate with the doppler. Nice and loud and strong, then baby started moving away from it, hehe.<\/p>\n<p>Then she told the receptionist to book my ultrasound appointments for the next several months. She suggested I book the ultrasound and midwife appointment together so I don&#8217;t have to go back and forth to the hospital all the time and can get them both taken care of at once. At first this sounded like a good idea, but in order to do that I had to move my appointment day to monday instead of tuesday due to my work schedule (I can do a short morning appointment, but if I don&#8217;t get there until noon I&#8217;ll be bogged down until 9pm) &#8211; mondays are far far more flexible for me, they&#8217;re my &#8220;free&#8221; day. Except the midwife that I love doesn&#8217;t work mondays. So now I have these appointments booked through April with other midwives and I&#8217;m starting to think I shouldn&#8217;t have done that. I know the other ones could be just as fine, but I found someone whom I&#8217;m comfortable with, do I really want to mess with that?<\/p>\n<p>An interesting thing I noticed: the midwife doesn&#8217;t just hand me the booking instructions and send me to the front desk &#8211; she takes the paperwork to the receptionist herself, and then she stands there with me, chit-chatting, while my appointment is being booked&#8230; which turned out to be a really good thing. Normally the process is short, a quick hi-bye, but yesterday it took a while to get all those different appointments booked in together. It&#8217;s a high counter so I was standing there just letting the receptionist type in the computer, waiting for my printout of appointment dates and times, when I got dizzy. Now I do get those dizzy spells once in a while, usually I just stand still and blink a few times and I&#8217;m fine. But this time it didn&#8217;t pass. I said, &#8220;I&#8217;m feeling really dizzy&#8230;&#8221; as my vision greyed out. They sat me down in the chair behind me; still I couldn&#8217;t see and my head was throbbing. I was also wicked hot, just pulsing heat &#8211; I got out of my coat and scarf and someone ran to get a cold cloth for my forehead and neck. Slowly everything leveled out again. The midwife came back in with crackers, peanut butter and a cup of juice. After that I felt right as rain &#8211; and just a little bit foolish, especially considering it happened because I hadn&#8217;t eaten breakfast yet. I hate making a scene and I felt like some damsel in distress&#8230; but I guess there are times when you just have no choice in the matter and you have to let people help you out a little.<\/p>\n<p>And that was my exciting day. Or at least the exciting baby part of my day &#8211; the work part was not so exciting.<\/p>\n<p>Happy half-way mark to me! The second trimester is certainly going by faster than the first.<\/p>\n<p>This is my view from up here, circa 20 weeks.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/lunardreams.net\/baby\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/01\/dsc_4197-500.jpg\" alt=\"dsc_4197-500\" title=\"dsc_4197-500\" width=\"500\" height=\"332\" class=\"alignleft size-full wp-image-2620\" srcset=\"http:\/\/lunardreams.net\/baby\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/01\/dsc_4197-500.jpg 500w, http:\/\/lunardreams.net\/baby\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/01\/dsc_4197-500-300x199.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 500px) 100vw, 500px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>And these are my nails. I didn&#8217;t want to cut them until I got a picture. LOL My natural nails, with just a clearcoat on. I&#8217;m very sad to cut them, but they are impeding my typing and that&#8217;s just no good.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/lunardreams.net\/baby\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/01\/dsc_4190-500.jpg\" alt=\"dsc_4190-500\" title=\"dsc_4190-500\" width=\"500\" height=\"332\" class=\"alignleft size-full wp-image-2619\" srcset=\"http:\/\/lunardreams.net\/baby\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/01\/dsc_4190-500.jpg 500w, http:\/\/lunardreams.net\/baby\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/01\/dsc_4190-500-300x199.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 500px) 100vw, 500px\" \/><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>My stretches of silence have been due to a gaming addiction. I&#8217;m having way too much fun playing the mage and squishing things (or, rather, blasting them with fireballs). Ahhh, so relaxing. But sadly 6 hours can go by really quickly when you&#8217;re engrossed in a game (and the hubby is kind enough to watch [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":71,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[350,386,387,385,374,141,63],"class_list":["post-2618","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized","tag-appointments","tag-fainting","tag-fingernails","tag-mfm","tag-midwife","tag-pictures","tag-ultrasound"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/lunardreams.net\/baby\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2618","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/lunardreams.net\/baby\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/lunardreams.net\/baby\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/lunardreams.net\/baby\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/71"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/lunardreams.net\/baby\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=2618"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"http:\/\/lunardreams.net\/baby\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2618\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2621,"href":"http:\/\/lunardreams.net\/baby\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2618\/revisions\/2621"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/lunardreams.net\/baby\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=2618"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/lunardreams.net\/baby\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=2618"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/lunardreams.net\/baby\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=2618"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}