{"id":2085,"date":"2009-07-29T22:38:30","date_gmt":"2009-07-30T02:38:30","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/lunardreams.net\/baby\/?p=2085"},"modified":"2009-07-29T22:38:30","modified_gmt":"2009-07-30T02:38:30","slug":"how-much-to-share","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/lunardreams.net\/baby\/?p=2085","title":{"rendered":"How much to share?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Twitter and I are breaking up.<\/p>\n<p>I like the concept. It works well for me. But the problem is the public-ness of it all. I know, I write in a public blog about my reproductive system, what could possibly be more public than that? The thing is, this blog is moderately &#8220;hidden&#8221; from search engines. I am not stupid, I know that nothing is fool-proof, but I have some sense of being left alone in the internet world. I am here, wide open, if you know where to look &#8211; on the infertility blog rolls, from other blogs. But some random schmo searching for &#8220;condoms&#8221; won&#8217;t suddenly pop up in my blog. I have things in place to keep the spam away &#8211; and it actually does a reasonably good job of it, too.<\/p>\n<p>Twitter spam is irritating as hell. I get it in all forms &#8211; the random friender that is really just a spam front; the @replies from some company\/product that I might have mentioned off-hand; and the people who twitter and add others just for the numbers and the publicity. It pisses me off. Don&#8217;t use me to make a buck. Some days I feel like the only thing my twitter account does is allow this crap to find me. I now think twice about what words I&#8217;m using. It&#8217;s negated all the positives.<\/p>\n<p>I find myself liking Facebook more, though I post much less there than I do in Twitter. I know who is reading, and it&#8217;s a lot more interactive. (It&#8217;s also a lot more family members, which is why I keep discussions of my hooha down to a minimum there&#8230; hence having twitter separate.)<\/p>\n<p>So I might be going friends-only with twitter. Which means no happy twitter updates at the top of the blog during IVF stuff&#8230; which is the reason I started it in the first place. This is a problem. I dislike problems.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Twitter and I are breaking up. I like the concept. It works well for me. But the problem is the public-ness of it all. I know, I write in a public blog about my reproductive system, what could possibly be more public than that? The thing is, this blog is moderately &#8220;hidden&#8221; from search engines. [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":71,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[],"tags":[250,208,249],"class_list":["post-2085","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","tag-facebook","tag-ivf-5","tag-twitter"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/lunardreams.net\/baby\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2085","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/lunardreams.net\/baby\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/lunardreams.net\/baby\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/lunardreams.net\/baby\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/71"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/lunardreams.net\/baby\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=2085"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"http:\/\/lunardreams.net\/baby\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2085\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2086,"href":"http:\/\/lunardreams.net\/baby\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2085\/revisions\/2086"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/lunardreams.net\/baby\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=2085"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/lunardreams.net\/baby\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=2085"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/lunardreams.net\/baby\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=2085"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}