{"id":1361,"date":"2008-11-20T00:18:21","date_gmt":"2008-11-20T04:18:21","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/lunardreams.net\/baby\/?p=1361"},"modified":"2008-11-20T00:18:21","modified_gmt":"2008-11-20T04:18:21","slug":"why-is-ivf-never-easy","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/lunardreams.net\/baby\/?p=1361","title":{"rendered":"Why is IVF never easy?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>The insurance coordinator called today to let me know that the referral was NOT in the system as of this morning. So I called the PCP&#8217;s office to make sure they got it and submitted it. They got my message, and planned to do it &#8220;sometime tomorrow.&#8221; Okay, I placed the call on Tuesday&#8230; you&#8217;re going to get it done on Thursday. THAT IS NOT 24 HOURS (like your message promises). I attempted to impress upon this (twit) that it is very very important that it be done immediately. She just kept saying, &#8220;Sure! Tomorrow!&#8221; OMFG I wanted to shake her. I think I got her to agree to do it tomorrow morning, after me attempting to explain the urgency of the situation (she totally did not get it), but I will be calling tomorrow morning to make sure. If it&#8217;s not done I may be taking a leave of absence from work to drive down to the doctor&#8217;s office and yell at someone. I am SO frustrated. Another day delayed.<\/p>\n<p>I have explained everything to the insurance coordinator (who tried putting the pre-auth on file with insurance so it&#8217;d be ready when the referral came through, but it was sent back so she needs to wait). She&#8217;s very sweet and very understanding.<\/p>\n<p>If this gets filed tomorrow (which it had better be, or I am going to have a complete FIT) it gives a week, Thursday to Thursday, so I can order the meds Thursday and have them arrive Friday. A week. This is still doable. I&#8217;m not ready to throw my hands in the air yet&#8230; but I&#8217;m really freaking out. I am angry because I am <i>scared<\/i>.<\/p>\n<p>But the lupron did arrive as promised, so I had my first injection tonight. It was almost anti-climactic. I remember my first IVF cycle, when I read the instructions five times, wrote notes, studied diagrams, had to draw up the medicine three times before I got it right. This time it was bam-bam-bam, done. My fingers are practiced at needles. And, as before, I barely felt it. The lupron is easy.<\/p>\n<p>So I am just following the plan until things either work out or fall apart. I won&#8217;t know for another week, basically. It&#8217;s a matter of holding my breath and waiting. And possibly calling to yell at some receptionist&#8230; we shall see.<\/p>\n<p>Deep breaths. I somehow have to concentrate through work tomorrow. And I have a feeling this is only the tip of the iceburg on that matter.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>The insurance coordinator called today to let me know that the referral was NOT in the system as of this morning. So I called the PCP&#8217;s office to make sure they got it and submitted it. They got my message, and planned to do it &#8220;sometime tomorrow.&#8221; Okay, I placed the call on Tuesday&#8230; you&#8217;re [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":71,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[76],"class_list":["post-1361","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized","tag-ivf-3"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/lunardreams.net\/baby\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1361","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/lunardreams.net\/baby\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/lunardreams.net\/baby\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/lunardreams.net\/baby\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/71"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/lunardreams.net\/baby\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=1361"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"http:\/\/lunardreams.net\/baby\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1361\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/lunardreams.net\/baby\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=1361"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/lunardreams.net\/baby\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=1361"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/lunardreams.net\/baby\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=1361"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}