This evening Den cuddled up to me in bed, his hand splayed possessively over my belly. “He never kicks me anymore,” he sighed. I patted his hand and told him the baby was probably just sleeping.<\/p>\n
That started me thinking. When WAS the last time he was awake and moving? Not this evening. This morning? I was sick this morning. I don’t really<\/i> remember him being active at all today, really.<\/p>\n
And the panic, it mounted.<\/p>\n
I got up and got a glass of juice, drank the whole thing, then layed on my left side like they tell you to do. And then I waited. I put my hand on my belly to catch any movement. After about 5 minutes I started poking and pressing my belly, jiggling it a little.<\/p>\n
And the panic got worse. Needless to say, I was laying there staring at the clock wondering WTF I should do, if I should be calling the Midwife (obviously if nothing happened shortly I was going to do that!), and having those horrible DBTs (Dead Baby Thoughts). I have been remarkably<\/i> positive this entire pregnancy. Even on that day they sent me for the ultrasound because I was measuring 4 weeks behind, Den was worried and I remained pretty calm. I didn’t really believe anything could be wrong. But tonight? Tonight for about 15 minutes I was seriously freaking the fuck out.<\/p>\n
I realized I was being stupid laying on my side, because I know my baby and he’s always<\/i> most active when I’m propped up in bed, not laying down. So I grabbed my laptop and propped myself up with pillows, then sat and stared at my belly and continued poking at it.<\/p>\n
Finally I got a feeble little kick. Then another. At least I knew he was still there, but it wasn’t all that reassuring. I kept poking him. Eventually my belly bulged out as he moved his legs around… I got some kicks… more bulges and pushes out the sides. At some point I let out a breath and decided he was okay in there.<\/p>\n
Here’s my log. I drank the juice at around 9:00, and moved from laying to propped up in bed at around 9:10ish. I think he went back to sleep after 9:45.
\n9:18 – kick
\n9:20 – kick
\n9:25 – belly bulge
\n9:26 – kick
\n9:29 – little belly twitch
\n9:31 – big bulge
\n9:34 – big bulge
\n9:36 – little bulge
\n9:43 – kick<\/p>\n
It certainly wasn’t a flurry of activity like I’m used to, although I can’t really expect him to be fully active if I woke him up from a sleep. Friends also pointed out that he’s probably getting a little short on space in there, I’ll be feeling more pushes and less outright kicks.<\/p>\n
I also started thinking about the normal pattern. Today wasn’t really a normal day for me. Devin has always<\/i> been more active when I’m propped up in bed, like I said. But this week that has gotten very uncomfortable to lay like that – I think he’s gotten heavy enough to start pressing on things. So today I spent my waking hours sitting at my desk instead. And what happens when I spend time upright – sitting at a desk or walking around? He tends to swing around to anterior. Yes that’s the position I want him in for labor. But with his limbs facing my spine, I tend to feel a lot less movement when he’s like that. Plus tonight I never did get to crawl in bed and watch TV or play on my laptop like I normally do – Den came to bed first.<\/p>\n
So I guess it’s not really so strange that he was quieter than usual today. But holy shit, do not EVER do that to mommy again, kid!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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